When I should have becomes I must do!
So I heard this statement a few days ago and thought I should definitely blog about it. I loved this statement and understand that when a person lives with the mindset that as they go through life that they will achieve whatever they put their minds to accomplish then this is really living by doing what one must do.
In many cases people go through life with a should have or could have mentality and it gets them nowhere and puts them in a defeated mindset overall. This typically results in stagnation and potentially a downward spiral emotionally. This can result in many different things but even some have decided to exit life because they have allowed their past to be their potential.
The best way to define a must from a should have mentality is when a person decides to make their hopes, dreams, future, goals, a priority no questions asked. What this does is allows one to reach and or obtain goals that they have set for themselves. The smartest thing that a person could ever do is set realistic goals for them to reach and obtain them in the most realistic time set forth to do so.
The main reason I wrote this is to motivate those who read to do and be better at challenging yourself to be the best that you can be. When should becomes must simply means make whatever it is that you are trying to do a priority. Do allow yourself to become relaxed in attitude or behavior. Don’t allow what is ok or common for the average person be your norm. Set your own goals and standards and don’t lower your standards because others have lowered theirs. Don’t become complacent and constantly challenge yourself to do and be better at what you are doing. Finally challenge yourself to constantly do better in life.
When should becomes must then you will never look back on things you tried to do and feel bad about it. When should becomes must then hopes, dreams, aspirations, and potential is reached. The emphasis is ow changed to I probably should do this to I will do this. There is a paradigm shift in ones thought process and potential is reached because of the pursuit. Possession of one’s ultimate goals are obtained because of this entirely different aspect on life.
So if I were to recap tis entire message wit would be to live life with a degree of urgency knowing that one’s destiny is awaiting!
As always have a great day!
D